Private event bartending
Cocktails and bar service for dinner parties, birthdays, anniversaries, and gatherings at home or at a private venue.
Private bar service · San Antonio
Private bartending, custom cocktails, and thoughtful hospitality for weddings, private gatherings, and corporate events in San Antonio.
Plan Your EventGood company. A well-set bar.
A well-run bar gives you time with your guests. The menu suits the occasion, the preparation is considered, and everyone knows what to expect.
Founded by Crystal Bosquez, SET + STIR brings cocktail planning and private bar service to San Antonio and surrounding communities. We help you plan the drinks and the service around your gathering.
Discover the experienceThe cocktail edit
Refined classics, seasonal flavors, and thoughtful zero-proof options. A menu that feels at home at your celebration.
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The SET + STIR experience
Good hospitality begins before the first guest arrives. We bring the menu, preparation, and service details together so you can be present with your guests.
Ways to gather
From a dinner at home to a room full of guests, the bar should feel like a considered part of the event.

Cocktails and bar service for dinner parties, birthdays, anniversaries, and gatherings at home or at a private venue.
A custom cocktail menu and attentive service for your reception, rehearsal dinner, or welcome celebration.
Organized beverage service for client dinners, team celebrations, brand events, and company gatherings.
You purchase the alcohol. We help plan the pour. Your proposal outlines the agreed planning and service, along with equipment, glassware, and supply responsibilities.
Plan Your EventA clear plan, from the start
Thoughtful preparation makes room for an evening you can enjoy.
Tell us your date, location, guest count, and what you have in mind.
We discuss the menu, service needs, and preparation that fit your gathering.
Your proposal makes the scope, timing, and responsibilities clear before the event.
We arrive prepared, care for the bar, and complete the agreed breakdown.
Meet the founder
Crystal Bosquez
Founder, SET + STIR
More than 20 years in hospitality.
Crystal’s background includes Hotel Emma, Tim the Girl Catering, Secret Little Garden, Biga on the Banks, and Liberty Bar. Her experience spans craft and classic cocktails, fine dining, catering, private events, and restaurant operations.
At SET + STIR, that experience informs the details: preparing before guests arrive, communicating clearly with hosts and event teams, and making people feel welcome at the bar.
A few details, answered
Every event is different. Here’s a helpful place to start.
Tell us about yoursYou purchase the alcohol. SET + STIR can help plan a shopping and quantity guide around your guest count, menu, and event details. The planning included is outlined in your proposal.
Yes. Cocktail selections can reflect your occasion and guest preferences, from refined classics to seasonal flavors. Beer, wine, and thoughtful zero-proof options can be incorporated into the beverage plan.
Each proposal identifies the agreed planning, setup, bartending, and breakdown. Bar equipment, glassware, ice, mixers, garnishes, and staffing are discussed during planning so everyone knows what is provided and what is needed.
SET + STIR serves San Antonio, Alamo Heights, Boerne, La Vernia, and San Marcos. Share your event location so we can confirm travel availability and any applicable fees.
Your proposal reflects the guest count, location, service duration, menu, preparation, and staffing needs. Share a few event details to begin a conversation about the right service for your occasion.
Yes. SET + STIR can coordinate bar-service details with your planner, caterer, chef, venue, or designated event contact.
Start with your date, event location, estimated guest count, and the occasion. We discuss your drink preferences and service needs, then prepare a personal proposal with the scope, timing, and responsibilities. Booking details are agreed before the event.
Your next gathering
Tell us your date, location, and what you have in mind. We’ll discuss the menu and service that fit your gathering.
Guest count, menu, service time, preparation, and staffing shape your proposal. We agree on the details before your event.
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